So like I'm gonna try and not go into excessive detail here because I've already talked about some of these things a lot, but basically, one of my brother's friends is like, more or less trying to live with us.
And we're not fully sure why, we know he has shitty parents, but he says himself he hasn't been kicked out. My personal speculation is that maybe his dad is beating him, I know he has threatened to before but I don't know if he ever actually did it. And that's shitty of course, but ultimately it's not my family's problem.
he just keeps coming over uninvited every day, and even when my mom tells him he can't be in the house, he just goes out and sits in my brothers car and we can't really do anything to stop him.
and for a while, my brother was kind of enabling him, cuz ya know they are friends (not to mention my brother bummed weed off of him), but like, lately even my brother has said that he is fed up with his friend being here all the time and has even basically apologized to our mom for it.
and now things have reached a tipping point because last night, the friend asked to spend the night, but my mom said no because there is no reason he can't catch a train home, it was only about 7pm and I think the trains run until almost midnight here, but anyways, we thought he went home, but he basically ended up sneaking in and sleeping on the couch after my mom and I went to bed.
and now my brother admits that he was aware
of this but like, he was really trying hard to get his friend not to do that, it just seems like he couldn't say no, and he felt bad because it was really cold out.
and now my mom is saying she's gonna call the police if that friend tries to come into the house again and it's just this big mess.
have any of you guys ever had a situation like this, where someone is like trying to force their way into living with you? it's just bizarre, I've never even heard of something like this happening.