Oh, if you're making the implication that he's using the money we give him to give to girls, that's impossible for multiple reasons:
The vast majority of times he borrows money from either us, like 95 percent of the time, he uses one of our debit cards, and every single purchase made with those appears in our bank accounts online, so we always know where he is spending our money, and if anything seems remotely suspicious we would be on it ASAP.
we're never just like "here's 50 dollars in cash" or something, if we give him cash we keep a close eye on where it goes. we're not stupid.
and we always ask what he's spending it on, and if it seems like something's not right, we call him on it. and to my knowledge, the only money he has been given since the breakup was to put gas in his car, which like I said, will show up as a payment to whatever gas station he went to in the bank account. if it doesn't
then we know something is up.
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