Yeah, its prob why i put in a lot of work to understand too. Its why i was bullied all through Jr high and half of highschool, but by the end of highschool, i was actually pretty well accepted, and dare i say... popular haha.
I still have to keep myself in check, i think thats why i put so much effort into asking questions and trying to gain other peoples perspectives on things. And why im so accepting of those outlooks and perspectives.
I still wouldnt want to know though, but thats just my personal choice. The way i see it, I am me, and i will remain me, no matter what a Dr says. I like me, i dont want to change me, or think that there is some kind of outside influence causing the way i think and feel that i have no control over.
Its just my personality, idk where i would draw the line between quirk and disorder tbh, and i dont think they do ether, unless its a very extreme and life altering case like in the case of my nephew and your cousin. I dont want to cede the responsibly of my actions to something in my brain that I feel like I cant control.
In other words, i don't want to open Pandoras box.
Neither of us are right, neither of us are wrong, its just our personal outlook.
But it is kind of cool that we both had that same situation growing up, I've literally never spoken to anyone about this that said "yeah, thats what happened to me too" haha.
Changed Dear to Dare haha
Any to And /)_-
This post was edited by its author on .