That sounds like a practical and safe way to approach it. I hope it goes very well when you find that person!>>2529358
Ah, not good! At least it gives you an idea of what you really want, I suppose? Would be nice if bodies could be more specific sometimes.
I hope your future experiences are much better!>>2529361>>How do I like my sex?>Lots? I've got pretty much the same libido I had in high school and now I'm in my 30s.
Nice! Well, assuming that's at a practical level of "lots".
>>Not like I expected?>I can't say I predicted that it would be with a dude.>>Atmosphere, activities, etc>I'm a cuddler, neither of us like playing too rough, pretty vanilla.
Aww, this sounds cute!>>2529364>Um...well, I tend to like my sex to be passionate and loving, unless we're doing some kinky stuff in which case I'm really into some mild BDSM. Get out the ropes~
What about passionate, loving, BDSM?
>I've not had sex before, but I think it will be fun. I'm kinda worried that I've built it up too much in my head and it will be disappointing.
I found a lot of it was exactly as fun as my sex drive insisted it would be, but that somewhat depends on the right situation. Like others have said, settling for something you don't want just because it's sex can make it worse. Casual sex, for example, isn't for everyone.
>Since you're a girl, I gotta ask, how should a guy approach having sex with a girl without causing her too much pain in the vag or whatever?
I gather I'm a bit more durable than a lot of girls, so I may not be the one to ask. Takes a lot to get me at all sore and I'm somewhat into that, ha...
If you want to be on the safe side, though, probably lots of communication, a decent amount of foreplay, and maybe invest in some lube in case it would help and she's fine with that. I know one guy who insisted using guys using their own spit as lube is normal, but that was gross and I've seen little to nothing of other guys doing that (porn doesn't count).
As long as your partner's comfortable saying if it feels bad then it shouldn't be a problem. The idea that people should magically guess what their sex partners want is pretty silly (tastes vary).>>2529365>that's where fingers had to come into play.
Ha, well figured out!
>How does butt worship present itself? Not sure if that means you're asking what it looks like, but it's basically me embracing it in every way I can think of one after another, touching, squeezing, scratching, sniffing, mouthing, rubbing face up against it, getting sat on, you name it.
Ah, that makes sense!
A team of worshippers would make for a great sexy massage parlour, I think.>>2529368>I'm good even without the trv e-cred that is dragon dildoes.
But how will you know unless you try them?
>>men are people too>I am so sorry you had to see this
It was hard to comprehend.>>2529369>I don't care for being directly stimulated, I'm more into the lovely feeling down my spine when I'm pleasing my partner, or when he pets my head, even simply calls me beautiful. It's the simple things. That's all I want. I would gladly even be in a relationship without any actual sex acts upon me as long as that remains.
Ah, that's different! I'm glad you know what matters for you. Was it hard to work it out, or did you always suspect?
>On the topic of atmosphere, I find people coming up with music playlists for it to be really weird...
People do that? That would be odd...>>2529374>i like it when im not sick, because when im sick, i have a really hard time keeping the mind set on.
I think that is normal. I like the distraction when I'm ill, but I have been told that's strange.
>But for everything else, I like to be pleasing my partner, Is like I focus on not trying to dissapoint.
That sounds a little bit anxious. Hopefully you'll become more confident as time passes!
>I have only slept with one Tranwoman on multiple ocations, and i must say, that im confuse what im suppose to do, because she is all about wanting to play the girl rol, which is perfectly fine with me, but im humping her for something between 5 to 10 minutes, and she keep askimg me if im going to cum soon, which make me nervous because I feel like Im doing something wrong, what is the hurry.
Hm, maybe she feels sore? Being overly anxious can make it harder to orgasm, so it's probably not helping.
I think maybe you should talk to her about it? It can't be so bad if you've been with her more than once, but communication's a pretty key thing even for casual encounters.
>And to that more problems to the mix, She is taking her hormones and all that, but she say she doesnt like that much to orgasm and ejaculate, because she say she loose hormones by cumming...>And apparently, some doctor said It isnt a problem.>So lets add this question, because i want to know. A tranny cant cum with out loosing her inserted hormones? or she just make a little of "male" hormones by cumming?
I haven't heard of this before and I'm no expert, but it sounds a little unlikely to me. Hopefully someone on here knows more about it, but I'd definitely say to talk to her more.
Maybe she just feels less female when she ejaculates, and that's more of a problem than the hormone stuff, or maybe she was misinformed. Either way, communication! Sex shouldn't be worrying for anyone involved.